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LAST DAYS |
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Kochu
Thirumeni returned from pilgrimage to the holy land contented,
that one of the cherished dreams of his life has been fulfilled.
Thirumeni also desired that the remaining days of his life
should be spent in prayer and mediation at Parumala Seminary.
However, because of the pressures of the situation, his grace
was doing hard work, as he used to do. |
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Two
Memorable Ordinations |
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After his
pilgrimage to the Holy Land in 1895, Thirumeni collected money
from parishes in Malankara and constructed a big silver
Procession Cross and sent to" the Holy sepulcher of our Lord, as
an offering. In 1898, Thirumeni ordained two of his disciples as
deacons. These two, in later life, rose to very high positions
in the Church, but as leaders of the two factions. They were
Deacon Punnoose from Kurichi, and Deacon Paulose from Ankamali
parish. The former became the Catholicos of the East Moran Mar
Baselius Geevarghese II (entombed at Devalokam Aramana) and the
latter became Paulose Mar Athanasios of Ankamali Diocese
(entombed at Thrikkunnathu Seminary, Alwaye). The two deacons
were ordained priests and also professed as monks. (Rambans).
Though unfortunately these two later became the plaintiff and
respondent in the Church case; they imitated their Guru in
spiritual discipline, and service to the church. |
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A
High School and Cemetery for Arthat Church Kunnamkulam |
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On an
invitation from the Kunnamkulam Arthat Church, Parumala
Thirumeni visited the Arthat Church and stayed there for
sometime in 1899. That church was the parish church of
Pulikkottil Mar Dionysius. During this time, Kochu Thirumeni
started a school at Kunnamkulam, just as he had established the
St. Thomas English School at Mulanthuruthy. To begin with, it
was a lower Secondary Boys High School in the name of St.
Ignatius. After three years it was upgraded as a complete High
School. Thirumeni was much interested in starting English
School. He continued with this interest, since he foresaw the
possibilities of missionary evangelism through these educational
ventures. Thirumeni vehemently opposed the “reformist’s
movement" started by the C. M. S. missions. Because he was
convinced about the importance of English education, Thirumeni
wanted to open English schools wherever possible. St. Ignatius
High School had earned a good name as a renowned educational
institution, where pupils from poor families were given free
education, irrespective of religion or caste. But later on this
school was amalgamated to an existing Government High School in
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In the place
of Ignatius High School surrendered to the Government" M J D
High School was later opened at Kunnamkulam by the people in
memory of Joseph Mar Dionysius of Pulikkottil. |
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It was at the
time of his stay at Kunnamkulam that a large cemetery was built
at arthat Church at Thirumeni’s initiative. The burial place
till then was a small plot near the church. Because new graves
had to be dug very often, remains of dead bodies burried earlier
were collected and kept in a large open pit. Thirumeni spoke
about this bitable state of affairs to the parishioners. The
General Body of the parish deliberated about this and authorized
one Iype Cherumanoor to find a solution-to the problem. Finally
a large plot of land was acquired for the new Cemetery. Today
the Arthat Cemetery is a 4.5 Acre plot with strong and high
walls on four sides. On the western wall is a marble plaque on
which is engraved the names of Parumala Thirumeni who laid the
foundation stone for the Cemetery and Cherumanoor Iype who was
in charge of the construction works. Thirumeni stayed at
Kottayam Cheriya Palli during the lenten season the following
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(c) |
Golden Jubilee Celebrations of the Sacerdotal Ordination of
Pulikkottil Thirumeni |
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Pulikkottil
Thirumeni fought a legal battle with the Reformist Group for a
long time, and finally after various trials and tribulations
Thirumeni won the case for the Malankara' Church. No wonder he
became a 'hero' of the Church. In 1901 it was decided to
celebrate the sacerdotal Golden Jubilee of Pulikkottil Thirumeni.
The celebrations organised as per the decision of the
representatives of all parish churches, was in effect.a loud
proclamation of the greatness of Pulikkottil Thirumeni. Parumala
Thirumeni played the leadership role in the festivities which
were conducted on a grand scale at Kottayam. |
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"The
Sacerdotal Golden Jubilee of Pulikkottil Mar Dionysius
Metropolitan was an unprecedently grand celebration at Kottayam.
Thousands of people from different parts of Malankara assembled
at Old Seminary, Kottayam for the event. Elaborate arrangements
had been made for a big procession followed by a public meeting.
It was the winter season and there were indications of heavy
rain during the days. Everyone was afraid that entire event
would go out of gear, if it rained on the Jubilee Day. The
previous day Parumala Thirumeni celebrated the Holy Qurbana in
the Old Seminary Chapel, and he assured the people that there
won't be a drop of rain on the appointed day. And amazingly, the
festivities passed off successfully without getting disturbed by
rain, just as Parumala Thirumeni had foretold! All the people
were convinced that it was due to the divine intercession of
Parumala Thirumeni that the rain kept off the celebrations. |
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The
Founding of M.G.M High School, Thiruvalla |
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Parumala
Thirumeni wished to start an English School in Thiruvalla.
Towards realising this, Thirumeni stayed at Paliakkara St.
George Church during the Lenten season in 1901, and discussed it
with representatives at the parishes in and around the place.
Before long, a site for the school very near Paliakkara Church
was acquired. And a public meeting held in 1902, presided over
by Thirumeni resolved to start the Syrian English High School.
Thirumeni took the initiative and visited various parishes and
collected money for the proposed school. However the school
could be started only after the demise of Thirumeni in November
30, 1902. Today the school stands as a memorial to Thirumeni Mar
Gregorios Memorial High School, Thiruvalla. |
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Thirumeni
led the Holy Week services at Paliakkara Church in 1901.
Thirumeni was physically very weak at that time. But he would
not leave out any of the services despite his illness. Here is
an excerpt from Mr. K. C., Mammen Mappilai, who attended the
Holy Week Services at Paliakkara Church in 1901. "A few months
before his demise Thirumeni conducted the Good Friday Services
in the Paliakkara Church. While he was leading the service and
offering incense, he was so ill and weak and people thought his
death was iminent. The congregation attending the service in
the church were actually crying aloud seeing his condition”. |
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10. |
THE
DEMISE OF PARUMALA THIRUMENI |
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Thirumeni's
illnesss took a turn for the worse in September 1902. One of the
trusted disciples, Father Kochukoshy was in the Seminary. One
day when he casually had come to the Seminary, Thirumeni told
him that he was not feeling well, and he should stay there; and
Kochukoshy Kathanar stayed with Thirumeni and nursed him.
Vattasseril Geevarghese Kathanar, the prominent, disciple of
Thirumeni also came to the seminary and stayed there looking
after the well-being of Thirumeni. Every possible indigenous
medical treatment was tried, but Thirumeni was getting weaker
day by day. Thirumeni had foreknowledge of his death and told
about it to those around him. Pulikkottil Thirumeni, when he
came to know about Kochu Thirumeni's illness reached the
seminary from Trivandrum. Pulikkottil Thirumeni, who had filial
love for Kochu Thirumeni cried aloud with grief, when he saw
Kochu Thirumeni writhing in pain. Kochu Thirumeni had complaint
of ulcer even earlier. It aggravated and took a bad turn due to
the severity of his fasting and abstinence, and the result was
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The news of
Parumala Thirumeni's illness spread like wild fire, and people
from all the places in the north and south' were virtually
flowing into Parumala. Thirumeni was very particular that
whoever came to the Seminary must be served food. People living
nearby brought the food articles for this purpose to the
Seminary. Food contribution were coming in such big quantities
that twice daily a large number of people were served food at
the Seminary. Thirumeni's body was slowly becoming weak and
numb. Thirumeni called Vattasseril Geevarghese Kathanar to his
side and entrusted to him the crosier and other insignia and the
keys. After this Thirumeni was lying still and silent for three
days. On the third day, Thirumeni asked what date was it. He was
told that the date was 18th (Malayalam era), Thirumeni said: "0
My Lord, I must suffer this pain for two more days”. This showed
that Thirumeni knew that his end would come on the 20th. On the
morning -of the 20th, “Kantheela" (The Sacrament of anointing
the sick) was conducted for Thirumeni and he received the Holy
Qurbana. By about midnight on the 20th, Th1rumeni was lying
motionless, and in a feeble voice he said "My Lord!" Punnoose
Ramban (Later Catholicos Baselios Geevarghese II) who was
standing near uttered the creed - "M hymen no" (ie. I believe)
The Priests where were standing around the bed followed, "in the
One True God, The Father, The Son and the Holy Spirit." This was
said thrice. By this time the Holy Father breathed his last. The
spirit of the Holy one was committed' into the hands of the
Heavenly Father. The bells of the Parumala Seminary sang the
wailing tune and carried the message across River Pampa to the
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The news of
the passing away of Kochu Thirumeni was spreading fast and for
the people, all roads were leading to Parumala. People of all
religions, rich and poor, priests and laity were moving to
Parumala to have a look at the mortal remains of the Holy
Father. They were moving all available means of transport motor
vehicles, country boats and carts; and also by foot. The demise
of Kochu Thirumeni was unbearable to Pulikkottil Thirumeni, who
was staying in the Seminary and nursing Kochu Thirumeni. It was
as though Pulikkottil Thirumeni had lost his "refuge". He firmly
believed that Kochu Thirumeni's prayer was helping him, while he
was leading the Church through the stormy days of litigation.
Every time a difficult situation arose, Pulikkottil Thirumeni
would reach to Parumala and pray with Kochu Thirumeni, and would
request him "please, continue to pray for me". He felt as though
his only solace was there no more, and hence his grief. He used
to come to Parumala as a pilgrim till he passed away in 1909. |
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The body of
the deceased Holy Father.was adorned with all vestments and
insignia and was seated on a throne inside the church, following
the ancient custom in the Eastern Church. |
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Internment (Burial) |
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The burial
services started on Monday itself. Mar Ivanios Metropolitan led
the service, which was completed on Tuesday. Pulikkottil
Thirumeni could not lead the services, since he could not bear
the sight of the motionless body of the Saint. The funeral
procession (Nagari Kanikkal) followed in the presence of a large
multitude of people. Everywhere it was people wailing and
crying, sighing and beating their breasts. Before the
entombment, it took about three hours for the people to kiss the
hand of kochu Thirumeni. The location of the tomb was earlier
pointed out by the saint himself, on divine inspiration. The
body was lowered in to the tomb and was filled up to the head
with frank incense, which was offered by the faithful. New
clothes were distributed to the poor who attended the funeral.
The 30th day of demise was observed on a grand scale, with the
co-operation of the parishes in Malankara. 600 bushels of rice
and 1300 rupees were spent for the feast on that day. |
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Canonization |
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On the
45th Anniversary of his demise, ie on 2nd November 1947, Mar
Gregorios of parumala was officially canonized as a saint by the
holy Episcopal Synod on the Malankara Church, presided over by
His Holiness Basalios Geevarghese II, Catholicose of the East.
From then on many Churches and Altars have been dedicated in the
name of Parumala Mar Gregorios. |
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SOME
SIGNIFICANT EVENTS |
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Kochu Thirumeni's Unshakable Faith in God |
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Vettikkal
Dayara was the nursery for the spiritual growth of Mar Gregorios.
He was only 23 years old when he was professed as a priest-monk
(Ramban). An incident during his stay at Vettikkal Dayara
provides ample proof for his undaunted faith in God. Once a big
swelling appeared on the back of Rambachan's body. Local medical
men were of the view that the swelling could be painful and
dangerous. This caused much fear and anguish in his disciples
and servants. But Rambachan was not moved by it at all. When his
father came to know about it, he got some Ayurvedic .medicines
prepared and sent it to Rambachan. Rambachan did not refuse it;
he kept it in his room but never used it. The aide Cheriya who
brought the medical potions lingered there for sometime and
requested Rambachan to apply it to his back. But Rambachan
pacified him and said: "Don’t worry, this swelling occurred on
its own”, it will subside on its own;" The aids, the old man
Cheriya, quietly returned thinking that the swelling would
disappear and it really happened. Thirumeni's faith in God could
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Thirumeni a Witness for Truth |
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The
Karingachira parish decided to install a cross and tower at
Thiruvamkulam near Thrippunithura, and on their request Mar
Gregorios went there and offered prayers and incense at the
site. Before long some local Hindus filed a case at the
Magistrate's court saying that the cross was installed near a
Hindu Temple. The trustees of the Church were the main accused
in the case. Thirumeni was enlisted a witness in the case; and
his statement was considered to be decisive. If Thirumeni
admitted that he prayed at the site and offered incense, the
accused would certainly be punished. Both the advocate and the
trustees earnestly requested Thirumeni not to admit that he
offered incense. But when Thirumeni was examined, he was asked
whether he offered incense; he firmly replied "Yes”, Naturally
the accused were punished. Thirumeni consoled them and said that
everything would be aIlright. Later the two parties reached a
compromise and the cross was shifted to a site nearby. That
cross dedicated to St. George is still there at Thiruvamkulam
junction. |
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Thirumeni's Remorse After Beating a Priest |
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Once
Thirumeni was very angry with a priest and spoke harsh words to
him and, also gave him a thrash. But Thirumeni felt very bad
about it and became very sorrowful. The very next day Thirumeni
sent for the priest and when he came, he was asked to stay at
the Seminary overnight and celebrate the Holy Qurbana the next
day. Before the service, Thirumeni had his confession before the
same priest and as a ransom paid one Rupee. The priest was much
moved by all these. Thirumeni's great humility and devotion
touched him beyond words, and he became a changed person because
of this. |
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Thirumenis Patience Changes Even The Violent People |
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It was the
occasion of the consecration and dedication of the famous
Kunnukkurandy Church in the Ankamaly Diocese. It was conducted
on a grand scale and the Metropolitans were given a reception
and taken in a precession in a chariot and led to the church.
While the procession was passing through the junction, which was
a market place, some anti-social elements threw cowdung at the
chariot. It fell on Parumala Thirumeni's vestments. Naturally
the people were very angry and a clash was imminent. Thirumeni
did not lose his patience and deftly pacified the leaders, and
the procession continued. But the unscrupulous individuals who
engineered the attack came to Thirumeni asking for forgiveness.
And a ransom, they themselves constructed a cross at the
Kavukkara Market place. |
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Thirumeni's Divine Insight and Foreknowledge |
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Three months
prior to his death, Thirumeni solemnized a marriage at
Veeyapuram Church, near Niranam. While Thirumeni was blessing
the wedding rings, .one of them fell down from his hands. The
marriage party was terribly upset, thinking that this was a bad
omen; and would result in some disaster for the bride and groom.
Thirumeni understood their predicament and consoled them that
nothing untoward would happen to them, but it .only indicated
that he would never again solemnize a marriage. |
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Thirumeni's Great Sympathy and Magnanimity |
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The incident
took place in Kandanad Diocese. A very rich man (an Orthodox)
leased a calf to a Hindu woman who was a widow and very poor.
The widow's only daughter brought up the calf with much love.
When it grew up the caw gave birth a calf. When the rich man
came to know about this, he ordered the widow to give back the
cow and the calf to him. It was the custom then that the calf
and the milk .of the first season belonged to whoever brought up
the cow. Still the owner insisted in taking back the cow and
calf, because he had no other milking cow at home. The widow was
afraid of the rich man and was about to take the cow and calf to
his house. Meanwhile, it was unbearable for the widow's daughter
to part with the cow and calf. By this time, the rich man came
and took the cow and calf by force. The girl began to cry aloud,
and refused to eat for some days. The poor widow approached some
friends .of the rich man to find a solution far her predicament,
but it was .of no avail. |
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About this
time Kochu Thirumeni came to the Church and stayed there for a
few days. The poor widow approached Thirumeni and expressed her
grief. Thirumeni despite his busy schedule there called the rich
man and advised him to give back cow and calf to the widow. But
he refused. Thirumeni felt much sympathy for the poor woman and
her daughter and comforted them and gave the woman Ten Rupees (a
good sum in those days) and asked her to buy a cow and calf.
They went back home very happy. The daughter grew up and reached
.a very esteemed position in life. The mother and daughter used
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Thirumeni's Love for Children |
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Once when
Thirumeni was staying at Karingachira church, a close friend
visited Thirumeni with his 3 year old son. When he kissed
Thirumeni's hands, the boy was attracted towards the ring on
Thirumeni's finger and he held an to it. Thirumeni took the boy
and kissed him and showing a beautifully decorated copy .of St.
Mathew's Gospel, asked him if he wanted the ring .or the book.
The boy opted far the book. Next day as the bay and his father
was about to leave, Thirumeni presented a small ring to the boy
who opted for the Gospel. The recipient .of these gifts reached
a very high position in life and kept the small
ring as a
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12. |
SAYINGS
FROM PARUMALA THIRUMENI |
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Prayer is
the inspiration of childhood, the refuge of youth and peace
during old age. |
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Prayer helps
education to cultivate truth, morality, faith, devotion and
mutual respect among people. |
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He who prays
to God everyday would never be without truth, morality, faith
and devotion, and would never turn against his master or
society. |
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When we pray
with, a heart full of devotion, God accepts it and we receive
blessings in return. |
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If man does
not raise his hands in prayer for himself and for the sake of
his people, even after knowing God, how can we say man is batter
than animals who are not wise and cannot think about their
future. |
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Prayer is in
many ways, the golden chain that binds this world to the feet of
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Pray
earnestly to God during day and night. Such prayer is the best
'way to remove the darkness and fatigue in us and also the means
to attain salvation and the Kingdom of Heaven. Put your faith in
God and pray to him. |
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God is on
the side of the poor. Remember God In whatever you do then
everything will turn out for good. |
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Whatever is
due to the Church must be given forthwith. If your mind is pure
in that matter, your house will also be pure. If in such things
you think of any gain or revenue then you will lose that
ten-fold. Therefore all of you be pure is depending on God, in
brotherly love and in loving your neighbors. |
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Don't try to
be smart, nor be foolish. Never love body more than spirit and
money more than God. |
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Forgiveness
is strength. It gives a person good name. It is the
distinguishing feature of righteous people. |
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Love your
enemies. Never make enemies of friends. |
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Consult God
in everything, consult your father too. If your father abandon
you, God will also abandons you. Don't be adamant is silly
things, which will bring in dislike of both God and men. |
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Never be
proud. Let God save you from every grave danger. Hold on to God
in everything. He will bless you abundantly. |
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Avoid
arrogance, quarrel, and pride while dealing in Church matters,
instead, let your humility shine before others. Those who place
their trust in God, and satisfy the people are blessed. May God
bless them. |
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Remember God
in everything. Let no one grieve because of you. Never let go an
opportunity to do something good. Only those things will remain
with you till the end. |
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As far as
possible never do evil to anyone; or it will ruin you, your
children and you; household on steadfastly to prayer, fasting
and works of charity. Do them with faith and devotion. |
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It you are
lazy, your learning cannot progress. Hold on to God tight.
Humility should be the best ornament for you. |
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Death is at
everybody's door. Keep that in mind. |
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You must
regularly read the Holy Bible. You must obey your spiritual
fathers and increase their good name and honor before God and
men by your exemplary life. |
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Thus who
disobey their parents and join their enemies, are liable to be
cursed by them. They will not inherit the legacy of their
parents and will be disqualified for this world as well as the
other. |
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Never be
proud, pride is followed by fall. Humility is followed by
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If there is
quarrel in the family, keep away from it. A quarrelsome house is
the haven of the devil; and, God is no where near it. |
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Be rich in
the love of man and love of God. Brothers should never cheat
each other. When you move away from unity you are sure to move
away from God. |
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It is not
spiritual wisdom to try to conquer the enemy with evil than with
virtue. If you depend on the God of Truth and go out with a
truthful heart, God will accomplish things for you. |
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Loss and
difficulties come when God moves away. on such occasions, never
look for one reason or the other. Instead, know that God has
kept away because of your sins; then cling to God, he will show
mercy upon you. |
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Be obedient
in all your dealings. Identify the good and love it, throwaway
laziness; be enthusiastic to do good things, day and night. |
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